Teens & Gambling

Parents do their best to watch for risky behavior as their kids get older, but one behavior that might not be as obvious is online gambling.

This is becoming a huge problem for youth and teens, especially boys. According to Common Sense Media, 36% of boys ages 11-17 have gambled in the past year. Kids learn about gambling on social media, via betting apps on cellphones, in video games, and while watching sports which now often have ads for betting.

Teens are drawn to gambling because their brains are not yet fully developed and they can be impulsive and take risks. They also may feel invincible and not understand the consequences of their behavior clearly.

Betting has exploded since the 2018 Supreme Court allowing states to legalize sports betting; this is now legal in 39 states, Puerto Rico, and Washington, D.C.

The legal age for betting is determined by the state and is either over 18 (as here in Washington state) or over 21. Kids get around the age restriction by using a fake ID, VPN, or the account of someone older. Gambling sites outside of the U.S. are also more lax regarding a user’s age.

Gambling behavior in kids often starts with betting in video games, making it hard to spot by parents. Bets in gaming may be for prizes or loot boxes (randomized “treasure chests”) using in-game or real currency. Video games often have ads and promotions for betting sites, tempting gamers regardless of age.

Betting is seemingly everywhere, including betting on sports during the game (“in-game betting”) often in a series of “microbets” which happen quickly, increasing the excitement and sense of urgency. There are apps that imitate casino-style gambling called “social casinos” which do not involve real money but do groom the user for actual gambling later.

The earlier kids get involved with betting, the more likely they are to develop problem gambling (gambling that feels uncontrollable and causes problems in a person’s life). Compulsive gambling increases the risk of substance abuse, depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts.

How can you help your teen with this issue?

Have a frank and non-judgmental discussion, acknowledging any gambling you might participate in like lottery tickets or fantasy football. Be honest if you have had a problem with gambling yourself.

Look together at what your child is seeing that promotes gambling such as ads in video games and during sporting events, social media posts, etc. and discuss how tempting those might be.

Encourage your child to not focus on the promised “winnings” but the reality of losing and the consequences of gambling addiction.

Pay attention to signs of a problem like small unexplained charges on video game sites, more time on-line (especially if secretive), increased anxiety or depression, or worrying about money.

If you have concerns that your child may have a gambling problem, especially with anxiety or depression, schedule time for you and your teen to see their health care provider. There are good treatment options and intervening early gives your child the best chance of beating a gambling addiction.