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Dog Safety for Children

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Most kids have a natural attraction to dogs, but we need to teach our children to be safe around them. Of the roughly 4.5 million dog bites annually in the US, the most common victims are kids, and their injuries tend to be more severe. In general, people are most likely to be bitten by a dog they know as opposed to a stray. Talk to your child about dog safety (starting when they are very young) and be a good role model when interacting with dogs. Basic dog safety includes:

  • Always be gentle. This applies to all animals and is a valuable lesson for our kids. Keep voices calm and reassuring as raised voices or screaming are understandably upsetting to dogs and may cause unpredictable actions. Praise your child when you see calm, kind behavior towards any animal. Practicing gentleness at home with a stuffed animal makes kids more confident when interacting with the real thing!
  • Never disturb a dog when sleeping, eating, or caring for puppies. No grabbing at dogs, touching eyes, pulling on ears or tail- even the most patient dog has limits. Stay away from the food bowl, treats, or special toys as any dog can become protective.
  • Never leave a young child (under age 5 years or so) alone with a dog.
  • When out and about, greet a dog’s owner first, and ask about the dog’s temperament and tolerance for children. You or your child can then ask for permission to pet the dog and after greeting the dog by name, can offer the top of a closed hand for a sniff. Stand to the side of the dog and pet gently on the back or side. Keep interactions brief. Commend your child for behaving kindly and gently.
  • If your child is fearful, do not force an interaction. From a comfortable distance, you and your child can chat about the dog, its size, cuteness, etc., to encourage positive feelings.
  • Any treats should be offered with a flat hand. Never tease a dog by offering a treat and then whisking it away.
  • Notice body language: A tucked tail, laid back ears, and a stiff stance may indicate fear. If a dog is trying to hide behind its owner, it is not ready to be social. A wagging tail often indicates friendliness but, in some dogs, may signal being on alert.  If you have concerns, you can say, “It looks like this doggy isn’t ready to meet new friends. Let’s give him some space.”
  • Stay away from strays. If approached by a stray, turn away, avoiding eye contact with arms crossed. Sometimes saying, “Go home!” emphatically will work. Do not scream or run away.

It is important to teach our kids to be kind to animals, and dog safety is particularly vital given the fact that about 65 million US households include at least one dog. So even if you are dogless, your child will undoubtedly have lots of opportunities to interact with them—and you can help those interactions to be positive and safe.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Measles in Children

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The rise in measles cases recently has many people, parents included, very concerned, and with good reason. Measles is a viral illness that can be very dangerous especially for infants, children under age 5 years, pregnant women, and those with immune system problems. As of 2/26/25, there have been 165 cases in 10 states, including Washington, and sadly one child has died. Although the number of infected people does not sound very high, measles is one of the most infectious viruses known, so numbers are likely to grow. Measles infects 90% of those exposed if they are not vaccinated.

Measles starts with a fever (as high as 104), runny nose, cough, and red watery eyes. These symptoms usually start 7-14 days after exposure though it can take as long as 21 days to show signs. Two- three days later, small white spots inside the cheeks (Koplik spots) may show up. The typical measles rash starts on the face at the hairline about 3-5 days after symptoms begin. This rash consists of red, usually flat, spots that spread head to toe and may join together. Fever may spike to 104 when the rash appears. Diarrhea can also occur.

Complications are common with measles, especially in infants, children under age 5 years, pregnant women, adults over age 20 and those who have immune system deficits. Ear infections occur in 1 out of 10 kids with measles and pneumonia happens in 5% of all people infected. Brain inflammation (encephalitis) afflicts 1 out of 1,000 infected children and can cause brain damage, deafness, seizures, and death.  Nearly 3 in 1,000 kids with measles die, most commonly due to pneumonia or encephalitis. Pregnant women are at increased risk of delivering early and having a low-birth-weight baby.

There is a very rare complication that can occur 7-10 years after measles infection called Subacute Sclerosing Panencephalitis (SSPE). It is a brain disorder related to the earlier measles for which there is no treatment and results in death within 3 years of diagnosis without exception.

The good news is that the measles vaccine (either as MMR [measles, mumps, and rubella vaccines] or MMRV (as above plus varicella [chickenpox] vaccine) is safe and effective. For kids it is a 2-dose series, given at ages 12-15 months and 4-6 years; adults who are unvaccinated may only need one dose. One dose of a measles vaccine is 93% effective at preventing infection, and 2 doses gives 97% protection. Common side effects include muscle soreness at the injection site, low grade fever, and a mild rash. Rarely there can be a brief harmless seizure due to fever, occurring in less than 8 kids per 10,000 vaccinated.

The Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy, Jr, issued a statement on March 3, 2025, with the subheading “MMR vaccine is crucial to avoiding potentially deadly disease” and then noted “Vaccines not only protect individual children from measles, but also contribute to community immunity, protecting those who are unable to be vaccinated due to medical reasons.”

Earlier concerns about MMR vaccine and autism have been strongly disproved in multiple studies. The doctor who made those claims was found to have fabricated his ‘results’ and lost his medical license. Autism is often diagnosed at around the same age as when kids receive MMR vaccine, but the vaccine does not cause autism.

During a local measles outbreak, students who are unvaccinated are excluded from school for 21 days from the last measles rash identified in the community. If they are given the first dose of the MMR or MMRV series, they may return to school. If an unvaccinated child is exposed to measles, they should be immunized as soon as possible to decrease the risk of infection.

If you have questions about measles vaccination, contact your child’s health care provider. Measles is a very dangerous virus that is unfortunately also extremely contagious. Our best way of protecting our kids and our community is vaccination.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Bad Breath in Children

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As a parent, you may occasionally wonder how your sweet child can have such bad breath, but bad breath in kids happens!

As opposed to just ‘morning breath’, chronic bad breath (“halitosis”) can have a variety of causes and occasionally can indicate a true medical problem. The most common reasons for halitosis in children include:

  • Poor dental habits: Without routine brushing and flossing, bacteria on the teeth increase, which can cause a filmy layer called plaque. Plaque can lead to cavities and gum inflammation, both of which can cause bad breath.
  • Dry mouth: This can result from not drinking enough water, sucking of thumbs or fingers, chronic nasal congestion, or chronic mouth breathing.  A dry mouth means saliva is not adequate to wash bacteria and food particles away.
  • Infection or disease: Viral or bacterial throat, tonsil, or sinus infections can cause bad breath. The bad breath should improve once the infection resolves. If your child has fruity breath, this is quite unusual and could indicate a serious problem like diabetes, though other signs like excessive thirst and urination would typically be present as well.
  • Allergies: Chronic nasal congestion or postnasal drip due to allergies can create bad breath.
  • Foreign body: If a bead, piece of tissue, or some other small foreign body is stuck up in the nose, a foul odor and nasal discharge from one side of the nose may develop.
  • Large, pitted (having an irregular surface) tonsils: Although shallow pits are normal, they can trap bacteria, nasal secretions, and bits of food, which can become calcified, resulting in a tonsil ‘stone’ or tonsillith. This looks like a small whitish lump and can have a bad odor. It is not, however, pus and does not indicate a throat infection.
  • Certain foods: Eating foods with strong odors like garlic, onions, etc. can cause bad breath, but it is usually temporary.

There are multiple things to try if your child is having bad breath. Brushing teeth well (begin when teeth are touching) at least twice a day, flossing, and brushing the tongue is important. Make sure your child is drinking plenty of water throughout the day. Older kids can chew sugar-free gum with Xylitol which increases saliva, decreases bacteria, and lowers plaque buildup which can keep the mouth healthier overall.

If you observe chronic nasal congestion or mouth breathing, talk with your child’s health care provider.  If tonsil stones are noted, recall that these are harmless and usually go away on their own. Older kids can try gargling with salt water which may loosen the stone. If your child’s breath has a fruity odor especially if there are signs of diabetes, call your child’s provider right away.

Remember that in most cases bad breath is not serious and can be easily remedied. If your child’s breath is not improved by the above measures, a visit with your child’s healthcare provider and/ or dentist may be in order.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Preventing Hearing Loss in Kids

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Excellent hearing is crucial to a child’s health and development. Poor hearing, even if mild, can cause problems in communication, learning, speech, and social skills. There are multiple reasons a child may develop hearing loss, including chronic ear infections, trauma, certain medications, and vaccine-preventable serious brain infections like meningitis.

In 2023 the American Academy of Pediatrics released a policy statement concerning one of the most preventable causes of hearing loss—excessive noise exposure, calling this a “largely unrecognized … serious public health hazard”. This type of hearing loss can be temporary or permanent. Over 12% of kids aged 6-19 years and 17% of adults under age 70 have permanent hearing damage from loud noise exposure.

Because children have smaller ear canals, higher frequency sounds are more intense and potentially more damaging. Think of noise as ‘dose-related’; the longer the exposure, the more risk even if just slightly louder than what is considered safe. Sounds over 75 dB for older children and adults can cause damage, depending on length of exposure. Noises we consider routine like city traffic, TV, and lawnmowers can harm children’s hearing. Concern has also been raised about infant sound machines used to help babies fall asleep. Since infants can have damage beginning at 60 dB, it is recommended to keep a noise level at 50 dB or lower, but sound machines may exceed this.

Depending on your child’s age, hearing loss can present differently. They may not meet developmental milestones. A 3-month-old should alert to a sound and babble back and forth. By 6 months, you should hear some consonants (“mamamama”, “dadada”, etc.). A 1-year-old will follow simple directions like, “Look at Mommy!”. Toddlers and older kids with hearing loss may have unclear speech, say “Huh?” a lot, and want the volume of TV or music turned up. Acute loud noise exposure can also cause ear pain and ringing in the ears (“tinnitus”).

Personal listening devices (PLDs) such as iPods, smartphones with earbuds, and headphones for watching TV can magnify the risk. The World Health Organization estimates 1.5 billion people worldwide are risking hearing damage from ‘unsafe listening practices’.

We can start early to protect our child’s hearing. Checking decibels in your child’s environment is helpful although decibel apps on phones are not 100% accurate. Anything over 85 dB can harm an adult’s hearing, and over 70 dB can impact a child. The louder the noise, the faster it can cause damage. 

Infant sound machines should be at least 7 feet away from a baby and at 50 dB max. Consider avoiding loud noise exposure (concerts, fireworks, etc.) but if unavoidable, younger children can wear sound protecting earmuffs (plastic cups connected with a headband) over their ears. Ear plugs are safe for older kids and there are different types; ‘musician earplugs’ dampen volume yet preserve audio quality better than foam earplugs from the drugstore.

Be a good role model by setting good rules for hearing protection and wear ear plugs yourself when appropriate. Set clear expectations for protecting every family member’s hearing. Loud background noise can also be distracting, worsen a child’s mood, and disrupt learning, so routinely having a quiet home at times can be a benefit. If you have concerns, talk to your child’s health care provider about getting a formal hearing evaluation by an audiologist.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Indoor Activities with Your Child

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It is great for everyone to get outside daily but sometimes we are stuck inside, often due to stormy weather or extreme cold temperatures. It may be easy to default  to ‘screens’ like video games, iPads, and scrolling on smartphones, but there are lots of things your child can do that involve creativity, brainpower, and just simple play. Use your judgement with the following activities depending on the age of your child.

Art- In addition to drawing and painting, don’t forget Play-doh (home-made Play-doh recipe on-line), cut or torn paper, collages, etc.

Baking (with good supervision of course)

Crafts- Local craft and dollar stores have inexpensive materials appropriate for different ages. “C” can also be for ‘Charades’, the classic guessing game.

Dancing- Put on the classic music you grew up with and rock out with the kids!

Eggs- Use paints or markers to decorate the shells of hard-boiled eggs.

Fort- Let you child get creative making a fort of boxes, blankets, chairs, etc.

Giggling- Tell jokes, riddles, do hand clap routines, etc.

Hair- Have fun with wacky hair styles for the kids (and maybe for you—let them play hairdresser!).

Indoor scavenger hunt- Give kids a list of colors, shapes, and specific items to look for in one room or small area of the house.

Jump rope- This is great indoor exercise if you have enough space.

Kitchen duty can be fun when kids come up with a (simple) menu and you prepare food together.

Listen to music- Consider exploring music of different cultures and parts of the world.

Make music- Use real instruments or pots and pans, shaking a jar of beans, etc. Have a musical parade through the house- noisy but fun!

Necklace– Dye tube-shaped pasta using a small amount of food coloring mixed with white vinegar and let dry. Thread on yarn for a cute necklace (make big enough to go over the head).

Obstacle course-Your child can create a course with cardboard boxes, towels as ‘water’ to be jumped over, a length of string as a ‘tightrope’, throw pillows as rocks to be stepped on with the floor as ‘hot lava’, etc.

Pretending- Kids love to pretend, whether it is acting out a fairy tale or pretending to be a teacher. Endless options!

Quiet activities like puzzles and Legos are a nice way for your child to play independently.

Reading- The reader (either you or your child) can use funny voices and exaggerated emotions which make it very entertaining. Or try Racing in unusual ways: crab-walk, bunny hopping, while holding a big spoon of water, etc.  

Seal, swan, snake- Take turns acting like different animals and see if others can guess which critter is being imitated. Also do some ‘Science experiments’—you can find many ideas on-line.

Tell stories about when your kids were little or make up stories together about adventures their stuffed animals might have. There is a lot of guidance on-line for storytelling.

Uno or other kids’ card games are simple, fun and can encourage good sportsmanship.

Vet office for stuffed animals- Set up a pretend animal clinic- use a flashlight and other household items as ‘instruments’ to examine the ‘patients’.

Writing letters- Teach your kids this ‘lost art’ and let them experience how happy the recipients will be to get an actual letter!

X marks the spot- create a simple map of one room in the house and hide ‘treasure’ (small things like fridge magnets) and put an X on the map for their location. See how your treasure hunters do without too much help.

Yarn- Kids can learn finger knitting, crocheting, or standard knitting with on-line instruction.

Zinnia seeds- Plant zinnia or other (small) flower/ herb seeds in cups with seed or potting mix. A small UV light or a spot on a sunny windowsill will be needed once the seeds sprout.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Mealtime without Screens

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Mealtime should be a time to connect with our kids and enjoy healthy food in a stress-free environment. This idealized version is not always the case, and for many reasons, kids may end up eating in front of the TV, laptop, iPad, or smartphone. There are multiple problems with this—for both adults and kids.

Obesity:  In general, kids eat more in front of a screen. Some parents are happy to see their child (especially if they are a picky eater) eating more but being distracted while eating means eating mindlessly. This can lead to overeating in the long run since kids don’t pay attention to feeling full and therefore overeat. Research has shown that children who watch a screen during meals are more likely to be overweight.

Digestion: Digestion is aided by really noticing the aromas, the preparation and the sight of food. If attention is more on the screen than the food, digestion can suffer.

Missed social opportunities: When eating alone and watching a screen, kids miss out on connection with others over a meal, learning to make conversation and basic etiquette (taking small bites, not talking with your mouth full, etc.). Mealtime is a chance to slow down, enjoy our food, and socialize. You can model all of this to your child if you eat together, undistracted—powerful stuff!

Exposure to commercials: Commercials during kids’ programming are often for fast food or processed foods high in sugar and calories and aimed specifically at children. Not surprisingly, screen time during meals is associated with increased junk food consumption.

So how to change this behavior in your house? Anticipate that it may not be easy (for either of you) to break this habit, but keep in mind how important this is and stay with it. Here are some suggestions:

Make change gradual: Target one meal at a time, either eliminating screens altogether for that meal or decreasing the time. Substitute music, conversation, or reading books to your child (not having an app read a book). Starting with a no-screen snack is an easy way to begin.

Adults adopt the change, too: No screens for adults as well at mealtimes, not even to text. You can tell your child this is hard for you, too, but you know how important it is for everyone to make this change. Explain your plan to other adults who may provide meals (childcare, sitters, grandparents) so they are also on board with this—consistency is vital for success.

Follow a schedule: Eliminate screens at one meal or snack every 1-2 weeks and you will accomplish the overall goal within 1-2 months. Talk about how different mealtimes are now that you are connecting and eating more mindfully.

Be firm: Don’t give in to tantrums or your child eating less. This behavior will be short-lived, so don’t let it throw you off track. You can however have some occasional exceptions such as snacks while watching sports, but these should be infrequent.

Children age 8-12 in the US look at screens for 5 ½ hours daily and teens spend an average of 8 hours a day on their devices—pretty stunning statistics. Kids who watch a screen during mealtime spend more time on devices overall. Changing this behavior is a good place to start to take control of the excessive screen use in most of our lives.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.

Returning to School After an Illness

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As kids head back to school and are together in classrooms again, parents know their child may pick up some illnesses. There are times when it is appropriate to keep sick children home, both for their own recovery as well as protecting fellow students and school staff. Students should be showing signs of improvement before returning to the classroom. Below are helpful guidelines for different illnesses your child may encounter as we move into fall and winter.

Fever: In general, kids should stay home if they have a fever over 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit. They may return to school if it has been about 24 hours without a fever (and no fever-reducing medications like Tylenol or Ibuprofen given).

Colds, RSV (Respiratory Syncytial Virus), COVID, and Influenza: if cough and congestion are mild and there is no fever, kids may stay in school. If they have a fever, follow the above guidelines. If your child has a more persistent cough or is very fatigued, keep them home until they are improving. When they return to school, kids should wear a mask for up to 5 days after becoming sick to protect others.

Gastroenteritis (Vomiting and Diarrhea): Kids should stay home if stools are very watery and hard to control (this may depend on the age of your child). If it has been hours since the last vomiting episode and the child is now keeping down liquids and solids, they may return to school.

Strep Throat: Children diagnosed with strep throat may return to school if it has been 12-24 hours since starting antibiotics and they are feeling better. Make sure they are drinking and eating adequately, too.

Pinkeye (conjunctivitis): If eye discharge is thin and watery with pink eyes, this infection is most likely due to a virus and no treatment is needed. This should resolve on its own within 5-7 days and your child may stay in school (be sure to review good hygiene to prevent spread). If eye discharge is thick, green/ yellow and eyes are very red, call your child’s provider since antibiotic drops or ointment may be appropriate if the cause is bacterial. Kids can return to school about 24 hours after starting this treatment.

Chickenpox (varicella): Chickenpox is less common now with effective vaccination, but if it occurs, all sores should be dry and crusted before returning to school.

Impetigo: This common skin infection may be treated with topical antibiotic cream or oral antibiotics. Kids can be in school once treatment has been started.

Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease: This viral illness causes painful sores in the mouth and small blisters on the palms and soles. There often is fever and a body rash, too. Children should stay home till they are drinking and eating well and fever-free x 24 hours; the rash does not need to have resolved since that can take 1-2 weeks.

Lice, scabies, and ringworm (tinea): These infections are very common in school-age kids, and children may return to class after treatment is begun. Kids do not need to be ‘nit-free’ to be in school.

Make sure your child is up to date on vaccines to prevent common and potentially dangerous illnesses, including COVID-19 and influenza. Remind your child about handwashing and good hygiene– and be a good role model with this! Call your child’s healthcare provider if you have concerns about your child’s illness and return to school. Policies about returning to class may differ between school districts; many school districts post their policy online. Your child’s school nurse is an excellent source of information if you still have questions.

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How to Help Your Child Make Friends

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As kids head back to school, it is easy to focus on the academics, but the social side of school, including friendships, is very important to a child’s development and overall success. You can help your child with the skills of making friends, keeping friends, and being a good friend, all vital to building social connections at school and beyond.

As the parent, you can be a good role model. Be friendly and social when you are out and about (and put away the phone, of course). Make conversation and express curiosity when interacting with others. At home, encourage conversation at the dinner table, taking turns asking and answering questions (again, no phones around). Having family game night or doing chores together teaches kids how to interact within a group. Let your child know that bragging and teasing will push other kids away.

Some kids need help reading others’ facial expressions; this is a skill that you can teach your child and practice at home. Active listening makes the other person feel heard and can be achieved with eye contact and verbal affirmations such as “uh-huh”, “yes”, and “tell me more”. Kids should also take turns speaking and let someone finish before jumping in and interrupting.  Role playing with your child for greetings, introductions, and conversation can help them feel more confident in social situations.

Bonding over a common interest or activity happens naturally, so encourage participation in clubs, sports, and other groups.  Arranging a playdate at a park or some other ‘neutral’ location is a great way for kids to build relationships. If there is a fellow student your child has mentioned positively, you may be able to reach out to their parent at school drop-off or a school event and discuss a get-together.

Help your child work on emotional regulation so interactions with other kids are positive and without anger or tantrums. Communicating calmly about feelings and stepping away briefly if upset are helpful strategies. Remind your kiddo to ‘let little things go’ and avoid being petty. Explain that annoying behaviors such as poking, imitating, and not respecting personal space can be very off-putting.

It is said that the best way to have a friend is to be one. Ask your child what they would want in a friend—and have them brainstorm how they can be that special person for someone else. Be positive about their efforts to master the important social skills needed to create friendships; this comes easier to some kids more than others. If your child is really struggling in this area, you may want to speak with your child’s health care provider or counselor.

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How to Have a Good Family Road Trip

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If you have a family road trip coming up this summer, you may be dreading the challenge of being together in the car for hours (or days). But with a little planning, you can employ some strategies to make this go more smoothly. Consider starting out when kids will sleep through the first part of the trip- either in the wee hours of the morning or at bedtime and remember to take any ‘loveys’ (favorite blanket or stuffed animal) along for the ride.

Plan on stopping about every 2 hours for younger kids (though we all need breaks from the car) and pick places like a park or playground so kids can get some fresh air and exercise. Have lots of healthy snacks on hand when you get out of the car; young kids should not eat in their car seat due to choking concerns. Avoid processed snacks with high sugar content which can spike the blood sugar and affect your child’s mood. Water is fine but sticky liquids like juice can be a big mess in the car. If anyone has symptoms of carsickness (queasiness, nausea), open the windows a bit and make a quick stop if you can. A bland snack like crackers can help.

Have everything you need for your child in a separate bag in the front, so it is easy to find things quickly. Bring lots of books, toys, puzzles (with big pieces that are less likely to get lost), crayons and paper, etc. Etch A Sketch and magnetic drawing boards work well for a variety of ages. Kids are more entertained by new things—or at least new to them; see if you can borrow from a friend as opposed to buying lots of new stuff.

Depending on the age of your child, classic activities such as “I Spy with My Little Eye” and license plate bingo work well; there are lots of variations found online. Singing songs together is a perennial favorite, as are word games such as GHOST (each person adds a letter with the goal being not to end the word). Kids’ podcasts (for example, NPRs “But Why?”) and kids’ music playlists and audiobooks can help pass the time.

Older kids can help navigate and point out interesting places along the way. Give them a paper map (remember those?!) and ask them to give input on routes, provide updates on location, and how much distance has been covered and how much lies ahead.

Screen activities can have a place in your road trip, but much better to use judiciously than have everyone with their head down on their own device the whole time. Try to save this till later in the trip when you ‘really need it’. If there is whining for devices, don’t give in—these are a privilege and are ‘awarded’ for good behavior.

Family road trips can be exciting and lots of fun, but it is realistic to expect there may also be crabbiness and bickering. Acknowledge to your child that it may be challenging but that you are on your way to somewhere special. Remember this is also a time for kids to learn patience, kindness, and compromise. With planning and preparation, you can all have a pretty good (and memorable) time on your adventure.

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Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.