Most kids have a natural attraction to dogs, but we need to teach our children to be safe around them. Of the roughly 4.5 million dog bites annually in the US, the most common victims are kids, and their injuries tend to be more severe. In general, people are most likely to be bitten by a dog they know as opposed to a stray. Talk to your child about dog safety (starting when they are very young) and be a good role model when interacting with dogs. Basic dog safety includes:
- Always be gentle. This applies to all animals and is a valuable lesson for our kids. Keep voices calm and reassuring as raised voices or screaming are understandably upsetting to dogs and may cause unpredictable actions. Praise your child when you see calm, kind behavior towards any animal. Practicing gentleness at home with a stuffed animal makes kids more confident when interacting with the real thing!
- Never disturb a dog when sleeping, eating, or caring for puppies. No grabbing at dogs, touching eyes, pulling on ears or tail- even the most patient dog has limits. Stay away from the food bowl, treats, or special toys as any dog can become protective.
- Never leave a young child (under age 5 years or so) alone with a dog.
- When out and about, greet a dog’s owner first, and ask about the dog’s temperament and tolerance for children. You or your child can then ask for permission to pet the dog and after greeting the dog by name, can offer the top of a closed hand for a sniff. Stand to the side of the dog and pet gently on the back or side. Keep interactions brief. Commend your child for behaving kindly and gently.
- If your child is fearful, do not force an interaction. From a comfortable distance, you and your child can chat about the dog, its size, cuteness, etc., to encourage positive feelings.
- Any treats should be offered with a flat hand. Never tease a dog by offering a treat and then whisking it away.
- Notice body language: A tucked tail, laid back ears, and a stiff stance may indicate fear. If a dog is trying to hide behind its owner, it is not ready to be social. A wagging tail often indicates friendliness but, in some dogs, may signal being on alert. If you have concerns, you can say, “It looks like this doggy isn’t ready to meet new friends. Let’s give him some space.”
- Stay away from strays. If approached by a stray, turn away, avoiding eye contact with arms crossed. Sometimes saying, “Go home!” emphatically will work. Do not scream or run away.

It is important to teach our kids to be kind to animals, and dog safety is particularly vital given the fact that about 65 million US households include at least one dog. So even if you are dogless, your child will undoubtedly have lots of opportunities to interact with them—and you can help those interactions to be positive and safe.
Resources:
- https://www.gooddoginabox.com/dog-safety-with-strange-dogs/
- https://resources.sdhumane.org/Programs_and_Services/Programs/Youth_Programs/Pet_Safety
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Dr. Elise Herman

Dr. Herman is passionate about community health outreach, school programs, and child/family health and wellness. She has more than 31 years of experience as a pediatrician in Ellensburg, Washington, the last 3 with KVH Pediatrics. In 2022 Dr. Herman mostly retired from practice and continues to contribute blog posts and remain a visible advocate for kids in the community.